Glossar

BDSM

BDSM is the acronym of bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, sadism & masochism

Bastinado

Foot torture involving the soles of the feet.

Bondage

Bondage play with a submissive partner with the help of ropes. These can be made of cotton or hemp. Wrists, but also the entire body can be tied. A pair of safety scissors should be always within reach.

Bottom

A submissive person.

Candle Wax games

Hot candle wax that ist droppend carefully on parts of the body - for example on the nipples. Do not use beeswax candles and colored candles

Caning

Chasten a person with a rattan cane.

Discipline

Training the passive part with flag hand or toys like whips, riding whip or flogger.

Dominance

A set of behavior in an erotic context in which bottoms, submissives or slaves are controlled.

Domination

Taking the dominant role to controll the bottom’s behavior for example in a role-play or in a D/s relationship.

Dominatrix

Is the term for a domme; a professional working dominant women.

Dom

Short term for male dominant person.

Domme

Term for a female dominant person. Domme is interchargeable with mistress.

Masochism

Is the fact that a person evoke sexual arousal or satisfaction from pain or humiliation.

Mistress

Is the term for a female dominant person. Mistress is interchargeable with domme.

Restriction

Limiting the behavior or physical movement of the bottom for example mith a gag or cuffs.

Safe Word

A word, phrase or signal a submissive can use to stop the session. The three traffic-light colors are the most common used safe words.

Submissive

A woman or a man is submissive if they submit themselves voluntarily to their own intensification for physical or psychological domination. The boundaries of the submissive part should be clarified in advance.

Sub

Acronym for a person that ist subservient.

Suspension

To bondage a person so that he/she is not touching the floor.

Spanking

To slap on the buttocks with a paddle, whip etc. Before using using toys warm the skin through slaps with the open hand to avoid wounds and haematoma.

24/7

24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Everytime.