BDSM
BDSM is the acronym of bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, sadism & masochism
Bastinado
Foot torture involving the soles of the feet.
Bondage
Bondage play with a submissive partner with the help of ropes. These can be made of cotton or hemp. Wrists, but also the entire body can be tied. A pair of safety scissors should be always within reach.
Bottom
A submissive person.
Candle Wax games
Hot candle wax that ist droppend carefully on parts of the body - for example on the nipples. Do not use beeswax candles and colored candles
Caning
Chasten a person with a rattan cane.
Discipline
Training the passive part with flag hand or toys like whips, riding whip or flogger.
Dominance
A set of behavior in an erotic context in which bottoms, submissives or slaves are controlled.
Domination
Taking the dominant role to controll the bottom’s behavior for example in a role-play or in a D/s relationship.
Dominatrix
Is the term for a domme; a professional working dominant women.
Dom
Short term for male dominant person.
Domme
Term for a female dominant person. Domme is interchargeable with mistress.
Masochism
Is the fact that a person evoke sexual arousal or satisfaction from pain or humiliation.
Mistress
Is the term for a female dominant person. Mistress is interchargeable with domme.
Restriction
Limiting the behavior or physical movement of the bottom for example mith a gag or cuffs.
Safe Word
A word, phrase or signal a submissive can use to stop the session. The three traffic-light colors are the most common used safe words.
Submissive
A woman or a man is submissive if they submit themselves voluntarily to their own intensification for physical or psychological domination. The boundaries of the submissive part should be clarified in advance.
Sub
Acronym for a person that ist subservient.
Suspension
To bondage a person so that he/she is not touching the floor.
Spanking
To slap on the buttocks with a paddle, whip etc. Before using using toys warm the skin through slaps with the open hand to avoid wounds and haematoma.
24/7
24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Everytime.